Network Marketing Tips / How to talk with your warm market
By debbybeachy on Aug 4, 2010 in Network Marketing Tips
Most of us have burned up our warm market which is one reason why we’re using the Internet to connect with people. What if I could open your eyes and renew your faith with some cool “Network Marketing Tips” Most of us were NOT taught any skills on, “how to talk with people” but, what if I gave you some key sentences that will have people leaning into you and wanting to hear more. What if I could promise you that it’s really painless and duplicatable everybody that’s a professional Network Marketer will give it a try.
I have a video I want to share with you on how I got two new customers by talking with strangers and how it was painless.
When you talk with somebody in the “First Party” you will sound pushy and I can promise you people will lean Away from you. The first party words are: I, Me and You,
Example: I have a product that You will just love.
You will love this product I would love to share it with You.
This product got Me out of bed one hour earlier every morning and into bed one hour latter each night, I know You would love it give it at try.
These first party sentences will KILL your efforts, it speaks loud and clear SALES. People will come up with all kinds of reasons why they can’t try the product, why they’re to busy. You will be left wondering…”what the heck” Why can’t I get anybody to try my product? I know you’ve been here…me too! 
When you talk with people in the third party you are talking to their Subconscious Minds they don’t have a clue in what you are doing.
Warning: Please be kind this is a very, very powerful secret that truly WORKS , don’t take advantage of subconscious minds in a uncaring way.
The third party secret words are: Some people, Most people, A lot of people, Many people and Everybody knows.
Example: Most people that try this product (or say the name of the product what ever that might be) come back for more.
Everybody knows that obesity in our country is at an alarming rate, but thank goodness some people have found natural products with exercise can speed up your metabolism.
Everybody is sick of the economy and stressed out, but many people are taking their careers in their own hands and building a full-time income with part-time hours by working at home. (Trust me people will be leaning in on this one! )
Using third party words in your sentences you will be able to sell your products, build your business without EVER talking to family and friends. I promise most people that try this will come to me and ask for more tips! 
To Your Success
Debby Beachy
Debby, What a cool tip. I will definitely keep my ears open and use it at my next opportune moment. Thanks for sharing your learned wisdom.
Erica
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Debby, your so cool. Eskimos had better watch out or they will have more ice than they can use. Excellent, excellent video and content. I love watching a true professional at work.
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An excellent grammer teacher years ago taught her class the same thing. I have never forgotten the lesson. Using the I, you, words when talking with someone seems to put the sales person high and above the prospective customer. This works in everyday converstion . Your tip is fantastic. map
Hi mom..
Love you! You are the best teacher I’ve had! (-:
Thanks for the reminder Debby. People want to hear about more than just I, me, myself.
Sometimes we get so excited about our opportunity that we end up totally turning them off. Thanks for the great tip!
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Debby thanks for this, what a great few tips, very powerful for connecting with people. Thanks for sharing.
Belinda
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this is so helpful for networkers debby. so many of us are timid about sharing what we’ve discovered with our businesses and products with our warm market, but you make it very natural and unassuming. i love it!
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Melissa
It’s time to “Brake Out” people are everywhere and they want freedom…I’ve learned to use a few simple sentences to have prospects lean in and it’s painless! (-:
Debbie. We all hate to be sold, so I can see how powerful this tip would be in many situations. Do you find using the third party is most powerful during a verbal discussion, or can it also have the same impact in the written word?
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Hi Scott
Yes, the third party is the most powerful with the written word. It reads easy, non-threatening and it appeals to most people instead of the few. (-:
Thanks Scott
If you would like to know more just contact me and I would be happy to talk with you! (-:
Great Article on Network Marketing … Loved the video too! Keep up the good work!
Hi Debby,
Excellent tip! There is a way to approach people in a non-threatening/salesy way and this is definitely it.
What I like best about this approach is that a person doesn’t have to fear rejection because all you’re doing is making a comment and if they want more, they’ll ask and if they don’t, no big deal.
Thanks and I’ll definitely be sharing this very helpful tip. Thanks, Laura
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Those are some very cool tips Debby which I can utilize. Just to share with you another approach since our business is a little different than yours since we’re in to personal development products and would require a very lengthy explanation and would not be what you would want to do at a party for example. If someone becomes interested in what we do we simply say that if I explained our products to you it would not be fair to you since I would not be following the system we have in which we do no selling or explaining we let the system do that for us so give me a call later and we’ll put you through the system.
Michael
Hi Debbie!
Thanks for a helpful posting and video. You mention some very great and important tips. It is a great way to start a conversation and connecting with some you don’t know without being rejected. No matter where you are, I think you should always be using your skill of listening waiting for that opportune moment and talk loud enough that others near my hear and lean in on the conversation.
Thanks for the helpful tips, Debby.
~ Corneal
Hi Debby,
I really enjoyed reading your post. It was awesome! The video follow up was very good.
~ Tim
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Great ideas .. I have not heard this before. i will try to remember to use these tools in my writing … and look for them in the copy of others. Thanks Debby!
cool tip, thanks for sharing